For many couples, pregnancy happens within a few months of trying. For others, it takes a little longer. While some causes of infertility need medical treatment, there is a lot you can do as a couple to improve your natural chances.
1. Know your fertile window
You are most fertile in the five days before ovulation and on the day of ovulation. In a regular 28-day cycle, ovulation happens around day 14. Ovulation kits or tracking your cycle can help.
2. Have regular intercourse
Intercourse every two to three days throughout the cycle keeps sperm available when ovulation happens, without the stress of “perfect timing”.
3. Reach a healthy weight
Being underweight or overweight can disturb ovulation in women and sperm production in men. Even losing 5 to 10% of body weight can restore regular cycles in women with PCOS.
4. Eat a balanced diet
Choose whole grains, vegetables, fruits, pulses, nuts and good-quality protein. Limit sugar, processed food and excess caffeine.
5. Start folic acid early
Women should take folic acid at least three months before conception to protect the baby against neural tube defects.
6. Stop smoking and alcohol: both partners
Smoking damages eggs and sperm and lowers IVF success. Alcohol reduces sperm quality and can affect ovulation.
7. Keep it cool for men
Avoid hot tubs, saunas, tight underwear and placing laptops on the lap for long periods, heat lowers sperm production.
8. Manage stress
Stress doesn’t directly cause infertility, but it affects sleep, libido and relationships. Yoga, walking and counselling can help.
9. Review your medicines and health conditions
Thyroid problems, diabetes and some medicines can affect fertility. Get them checked and controlled before you try.
10. Don’t wait too long to seek help
See a fertility specialist if:
- You are under 35 and have tried for 12 months
- You are over 35 and have tried for 6 months
- You have irregular periods, PCOS, endometriosis or a history of miscarriage
- Your partner has a known sperm problem
Simple tests for both partners often find a cause that is easy to treat. At Meenakshi Fertility Centre we start with the gentlest options and only recommend treatments like IVF when you truly need them.
Medical disclaimer: This article is for general information only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult our specialists for guidance about your own health.